I Dress Preppy But Don’t Genuinely Have Any Frien

denny123

I’m blonde, slightly tan thin (5’4 and 115 pounds) am not flatchested and put on abercrombie hollister ae, juicy, [link widoczny dla zalogowanych],[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], uggs, carry coach anything preppy trendy, and so on. i put effort into my appearance but don’t put on a great deal of makeup just basics, I’ve been told I am attractive.
But I do not actually have any friends. I go to a community college plus the atmosphere there is not quite social, it seems like persons go to class and then leave trigger everyone commutes. I often see people who dress like me and have a couple of individuals i make little speak with but they seem to already have their very own friends outside of class and i dont know ways to make them my friend.
My only friend is my cousin and she is emo, all her friends by association are also emo and they are the only ppl i hang out with and i stick out like a sore thumb and have absolutely nothing in typical with them (unique clothes, music, tv watching, and so on) and they kinda ignore me.
The only attention i get from guys are these random guys that try to hit on me to have sex with me or they already have a girlfriend.
Im quite great and Im also intelligent, i from time to time fear i come off TOO intelligent, feel kinda lonely idk what Im performing incorrect.
What you put on seriously has nothing to do along with your capacity to create friends. Confident, often what you wear tends to group you having a category of people, but when it comes to making new friends it frankly doesn’t matter.
It sounds to me like you’re not utilised to the atmosphere of a community college. In a community college most men and women aren’t looking for a social encounter. They’ve preexisting friends that they hang out with or have other items occupying their time, including a job. If you’re intelligent it would serve you much better to transfer to a state university or other university exactly where becoming social is an integral component of the college knowledge.
Your other option is to me more direct. Maybe you need to ask a group of men and women out for lunch or a cup of coffee before you start off class or right after classes end. You won’t make friends, apart from “class buddies” unless you interact outside of the school situation.